Tuesday, January 16, 2007

Enjoying versus enduring

I read a MOPS email this morning that struck me. So much of my time is spent enduring dirty diapers, nighttime wakings, cooking, laundry and all those other mundane chores. When I really and truly am very thankful that I am at home with my boys. I want to enjoy every moment with them because time marches on far too quickly. I know that Nolan will only hold onto my fingers and walk for a very short time and while I may want to get the dishes cleaned up or fold the laundry, I need to remember that each stage of their childhood is so short. Caleb is full of energy but will only play when I'm in the vicinity. If I move rooms, so must he. But someday, I will be knocking on his bedroom door wondering when he will grace us with his presence. So I choose to enjoy today and not just endure it. I will not just look forward to bedtime. I will look forward to playing basketball, peekaboo, and drinking "pretend" hot coffee.

7 comments:

kelli said...

YOURE BACK!!!!!! YAAAAAAYYYYY!!!

val said...

thanks for writing that. it's always good to be reminded--i forget easily too.

Jen said...

I want to be a Mommy!

kelli said...

Jen, you ARE you silly. Haven't you ever heard that saying "parenting begins in the womb." Actually, now that I see it in print, that must not be right...but it should be!! Maybe it's heart.

Charity Lemke said...

yes, kelli, i'm here, we'll see for how long.

Charity Lemke said...

jen, if you ask caleb who ella's mommy and daddy is, he says jen and scott. so it is official, you are a mommy!

Jen said...

Sweet Monkeys!! Caleb rocks.